Awareness of Mental Health and Power Exchanges Master Kaddan Yue
This discussion will cover how mental health issues can affect power exchange dynamics and the responsibilities the people in the dynamic have in communicating those issues to each other. We will discuss the importance of being self-aware of mental illness and creating concise, understandable definitions of those illnesses. As well as how you are able to create healthy dynamic within the framework of living with mental illness.
The Practice of Call In, Call Out, and Call On Culture in Leadership GoddessMW
Have you ever felt disrespected, unappreciated, or under-valued as a group/event/community contributor or leader? Is it your responsibility or others to inform, educate, or remove? As a group, we will examine scenarios and explore possible outcomes when we practice Call In, Call Out, Call On, and Cancel behaviors.
“Uncaged Kink”: Illuminating POC Entry Stories into BDSM Taylor & Master Nwachi
At MsC 2022, Master Nwachi Tafari embarked on a research study titled “Uncaged Kink.” The goal was to archive the entry stories of people of color into the BDSM lifestyle. Participants were asked to spend 20 to 40 minutes sharing their story and answering a series of interview questions. What was intended to be a guided monologue often turned into a deep dialogue, with interviewees turning the table on Master Nwachi, asking as many questions as they answered. In this class, Master Nwachi will share the results of his study: The challenging and inspiring stories of kinky persons of color navigating their journeys of self-discovery.
A Little You Lil Aaly
Have you found yourself enjoying the things you did as a child, or still viewing the world with childlike wonder? Does your "D" type fulfill a more caretaker or disciplinarian role? I will explore the world of Little's. What to do when you think you are one? WE will explore types of Little's, some basic protocols that Little's should remember when interacting with the community at large. While the class with center around Little's, I will also touch on Middle's and ABDL as well. All Little's, Middle's, ABDL, and all Caretakers are welcome.
Adaptable Aftercare for All Evie Lupine
Aftercare is a common buzzword in BDSM circles, and many myths surround the practice. Is aftercare only for really intense kink scenes? Does it always look like cuddles, chocolate, and a juice box? What’s the truth about aftercare and sex? In this class with Evie Lupine, we’ll be breaking down these stereotypes, as well as talking about ways to make an effective aftercare plan even if you’ve never done kink before. We’ll discuss the mechanics behind aftercare, how to make it work better for you, and how your headspace in-scene can change your aftercare needs. Even if you’re not super kinky, there’s something in this class for you as well. As we’ll discover, aftercare is for everyone! And it carries many benefits for everyday life and vanilla sex, too.
Agura 101 Mr. Goodboy & Jack the worm
This class will introduce the different aspects of an Agura tie for rope bondage. The class is designed to explore body positioning and various details for tying for partnered and self tie floor work, as well as briefly touching on self and partnered suspension. A basic understanding of rope bondage is helpful, but not necessary to attend. Participants are welcome to tie along in class.
Agura 102 Mr. Goodboy & Jack the worm
This class builds on the basics of an Agura from Mr. Goodboy’s Agura 101 and is geared as a deeper exploration of this classic position for both self suspension and partnered suspension. Mr. Goodboy will demonstrate suspension positioning on their beloved bottom, jack the worm. Basic knowledge of rope is helpful but not necessary to attend the class.
Anatomy of Pain Lady Catherine
As tops we need to know the body beyond the normative class outlining joints and muscles. As bottoms, you need to have this information to give informed consent. Want to know why players decades ago were able to play in dark spaces without good lighting? This workshop is presented from top/bottom perspectives. Learn about taking and creating pain from the top, bottom, emotional, psychological and physical perspectives. We'll explore reading your bottoms more accurately, pain for masochists and non-masochists. This class is for tops, bottoms, experienced players and novices. Come get a deep foundation to foster hurt, not harm, in your scenes.
Ask a Scientist Roundtable Taylor & Master Nwachi
Have you ever wondered what goes into being a BDSM researcher? Do you have any burning questions that you’d like to ask a scientist? If so, some members from the Science of BDSM Research Team are here to answer your questions! In this attendee-led roundtable, we will likely discuss topics such as our previous research topics, current studies, and what the academic BDSM literature has to say.
Aural Attunement DaKollector
Do you know how to use music and sound effectively in a BDSM scene? Let's talk about the importance of sound as a kink implement. Let's discuss how rhythm transforms and moves a scene. How certain songs affect the Atmosphere you are trying to create. How music and sound affects both tops and bottoms in a scene. And what types of sounds can be used in kink play
Authority Exchange - A Deep Exploration Tomo
Join Tomo for an intensive journey and exploration of Authority Exchange. Sharing stories and experiences from over 25 years of living as both a Dominant and one who surrenders, Tomo will guide us with ideas, discussion and exercises to enrich our Authority Exchange relationships offering viewpoints from both sides of the slash. We’ll talk about how to inspire obedience to your orders as well as the skills needed to surrender and serve. Tomo will offer thoughts to support us to engage with each other and deepen our relationship with trust and accountability. Using concepts from the martial arts applied to authority exchange such as center of the body and mind, alignment, and connection, we will investigate how we can increase our connection with each other and thrive in the joy of our relationship as well as maintain our center during challenging times. Whether you are new to Authority Exchange or have decades of experience, Tomo will offer clarity, a few laughs, interesting concepts and inspiration to support your own personal development and the growth of your Authority Exchange relationship.
Baskin Robbins Submission: 31 Flavors lily
In the world of kink, there are as many flavors of submission as individuals. This discussion reviews different styles of submission. Bring your questions and thoughts and we’ll discuss how to feel confident shopping the buffet of BDSM. Are your flavors service and brat? Or maybe leather and worship? Perhaps a little bit of ageplay with a sprinkle of romance? Whatever your style, you’ll get ideas on how to zest submission with your own twist.
Beginner BDSM - Role of the Sir & Boi - Getting Started Sir pup henry
Starting out as either a New Sir, or New boi - how to manage, the basics of a great future. What are the Protocols, guidelines, ideas on how to make it successful? Internet and porn are poor guides to a successful relationship. And while short stories can provide a guide - they miss critical aspects of connection, trust, communication. So, come learn about yourself, your iterests and how to connect with another "kinky" minded person. Start off right with a good foundation and have fun.
Beyond Penetration: An Introduction to Front Hole Fisting (For Bottoms) Jewel
Join Jewel for an inclusive exploration of front hole fisting for bottoms of all genders. During this class, you will learn about anatomy, safety, technique, negotiation, and aftercare for front hole fisting, including a live demo! Been curious about front hole fisting, but unsure how to get started? This class is for you! Beyond Penetration aims to empower new and experienced fisting bottoms with new information and negotiation skills to take them to new heights of pleasure.
BIPOC History in Leather/Kink Community Mufasa Ali
This class will explore the history of the BIPOC presence and representation within the Leather/Kink Lifestyles. We will explore the issues and media as well as the community representation of BIPOCs that have paved the way for us to exist. Exclusion and discrimination have played major roles over the years....where are we today?
BIPOC: TNG Finding Where We Belong Sir Noah
As more BIPOC individuals are making space for their kinky explorations, who do we turn to for guidance? This workshop will talk about navigating kink spaces as BIPOC individuals and how to claim space and ownership for our kinks. We'll discuss vetting, negotiation techniques, talk about consent models, and discuss improving local resources for BIPOC folks in kink space.
Bound by Pages: Leading a Kink-lectic Book Club lily
Gather, lead, and learn. We will explore various aspects of running an inclusive and engaging book club focused on erotic literature, BDSM, and related themes. From selecting titillating titles, facilitating open dialogues, and creating a non-judgmental space for members. Whether you're a seasoned aficionado or just curious, this class equips you with the skills to confidently lead a Kinky Book Club that embraces the beauty of the written word.
Boundaries: Consent Beyond the Scene Kali Saachi & Jessica Noir
In this class we will discuss boundaries in the context of kink, BDSM, and Leather relationships. We will learn about what boundaries are (they're more than saying no), their benefits, and tools to reinforce them in play partnership, dynamic, club membership and beyond. The content of this class is geared toward all experience levels.
Breaking Boundaries: Demystifying High Protocol Scarlett Rose
Have you ever wanted to participate in high protocol? Has it always seemed so overwhelming? Has the thought of all those rules got your head spinning? It’s definitely not as hard as it sounds. This class will help alleviate your fears and trepidation, discuss some “old school” basics, reminders on how protocol is always personal to your dynamic and how to find that ah-ha moment that makes you realize that you can totally do this.
Bringing Out the Big Guns DaKollector
Warhammers, clubs, Bats, You’re shocked when you see them come out of the toy bag, but intrigued. Impact with these massive tools can be exciting but oh so dangerous. We will demonstrate heavy play, talk about transporting, cleaning risks and safety of playing with unconventional Implements. It can be scary when you see these items in some ones hands, but once you get accustomed, you'll be asking again and again to bring out the big guns.
Burnout: The Art of Having Longevity in the Lifestyle Jessica Noir
Whether we are in it for kink, BDSM, Leather or all of the above, the lifestyle can be exciting and consuming. How do we sustain ourselves so that we can enjoy the journey? In this class we will explore the impact of frenzy, service, privilege and life beyond our predilections and how they impact our ability to sustain long term participation in the lifestyle. We are still reeling from the collective trauma we experienced during the pandemic. What’s next? What did we learn? How do we make sure being in this community remains healthy, enjoyable and sustainable?
Chain Fisting The Rabbi & LilPonyBites
Yep. It’s what it sounds like. The chain is inserted into a lower orifice, link by link by link, until it forms a fist-like ball inside the body. How to do it, what materials are needed and how to do it safely. Simultaneous ASL interpreting by the demo bottom is available upon request. As always, consent is covered as well.
Changing Lanes: From Right to LEFT Lady Sa'Vage
Changing Lanes: from right to LEFT is my story on how I misidentified for almost 10 years. When people come into the BDSM lifestyle, many are quick to pick an identity without learning what it is and who they really are. This class will take you through my learning process, the good, the bad and the truly ugly as I got to learn who sasha was (the submissive) and who Lady Sa'Vage is (the Dominant). As well as finding my tribe and becoming comfortable in my skin and not allowing others to determine who or what I am.
Consent, What Else Are We Missing? Luna Nebula
Yes, I know I know, Luna, another class on consent? Yes, but with a twist. Do you ever feel like something is missing from the topic of consent and why doesn't it seem to be helping? Over the past couple of years I have spent time delving into personal development and have come to realize there are key factors that rely on us, as individuals to really enforce and encourage consent to functionally work. So come on out and see a different perspective.
Contract Negotiations from the Right Side of the Slash Mara
Contracts are one of the most valuable and sadly most underutilized tools to help s-types protect themselves AND ensure that both partners get what they want out of the relationship. This class will give examples of talking points and negotiation tips including a fundamental Relationship Bill of Rights to use when starting negotiations, Then how to turn that feedback and building a contract to establish clear guidelines for ensuring your own health, well-being and happiness. Happy s-type=better service!
Controlled Predicament in BDSM: Types, Consent, and Rules Lady Sa'Vage
Controlled predicament is a fascinating and engaging aspect of BDSM that involves placing a submissive partner in a challenging or uncomfortable situation, often with a defined set of rules and conditions. This practice can be highly erotic and intense, focusing on the power exchange between the dominant and submissive partners. In this class, we will explore the various types of controlled predicaments, emphasize the importance of consent, and outline essential rules and safety considerations.
Cornerstones: Beginnings, Middles and the End Lady Catherine
We'll focus on relationship patterns in the beginning, middle and the end of relationships. We'll discuss the difference between care-taking and taking care, illusion vs reality, personal responsibility, boundaries, owning who you are, getting what you want, dealing with mistakes and being able to separate between yours, mine and ours. End your relationships as well as you begin them. Understanding the stages of relationships will help you stay in the middle, isn't that the goal after all? Join this intimate discussion regardless of what stage you are in-- this is for coupled and single people alike.
Corsets for All Miss Rae & chris, Miss Rae's pet
If you have ever thought what it would feel like to wear a corset, you will enjoy this class. Perhaps you already have a corset, but it just doesn’t feel like it fits right, come to this class. Miss Rae has a love for her corsets and wants to share her passion and knowledge with you. She will teach about the different styles of corsets, how to choose the best one for your body type, and how to properly wear, lace and store them. She invites you to bring your corsets with you or try on one of hers. This class is for all body types and all genders!
Creating a Nuanced Legal Risk Profile for Leather, Kink, and BDSM John
This class explores the intersection of Leather, Kink, and BDSM with the American legal system through the lens of a risk profile. The class is not prescriptive and does not focus on any jurisdiction's laws. Instead, John will explore how participating in power exchange, S/M, and other kink activities might fit into a person's legal risk profile. While the class will explore some legal issues in depth, it is not intended to and does not provide legal advice.
Creating Safer Spaces Kali Saachi
This will be a moderated panel/roundtable discussion about accountability through a restorative justice lens and what that looks like in kinky spaces. Themes that will be explored are creating safer spaces, especially for marginalized communities, community accountability processes, ethical considerations for leadership positions, power and power differentials, and discussing frameworks that foster community to end cycles of harm.
CRYBABY: Dacryphilia, Crying Kink & Fetish, and Catharsis Play Apollo
Crying is a response most people are not unfamiliar with during play... but what about those with a crying fetish: dacryphilia? What is the science behind and motivation for being attracted to and aroused by tears? From a sadistic place to a compassionate one, there is more to explore about our tears than we realize. Learn all about crying, how to incorporate tears more purposefully into scenes, and catharsis play -- a form of edge play
Cultivating Connection Through Mutually Respectful Communication Skills Sander T Jones
Diamond patterns are common in shibari. This course will show you how to build the diamond pattern. This includes how to use it for dresses, suspensions, or just an addition to your rope ties. It can be loaded from the front, side or back. We will also address how to prevent slipping.
Diamond Dress Tie and How to Use It Rogi65 & Emmaline
Diamond patterns are common in shibari. This course will show you how to build the diamond pattern. This includes how to use it for dresses, suspensions, or just an addition to your rope ties. It can be loaded from the front, side or back. We will also address how to prevent slipping.
Diamond Futo Momo and How to Use It Rogi65 & Emmaline
How to quickly tie the diamond Futomomo and use it in floor tie or suspension. There are many Futomomo versions, and some are better than others. Many rope models point out that Diamond Futo is the least hard on their shins. This tie can be loaded from many directions and be quickly tied on the model that is already suspended.
Dominants, Dominate Your Ego Sir Scorpius Wulf
Dominants have big egos. Ego is needed in order to see the vision for their dynamic, believe that vision, and see it through. However, when it comes to ego, there is a fine line between self confidence and self importance. This class is designed to teach that as Dominants, we must be aware of the dangers of allowing our egos to dominate us in our dynamics, the community, and ourselves.
Electric Mayhem 2: Electric Boogaloo - Electroplay Beyond the Violet Wand The Rabbi & LilPonyBites
We rocked down to electric avenue in the first Electric Mayhem class, and now we’ll take it higher. Learn about e-stim devices, TENS units, stun guns, Electreat, electric acupuncture devices, scat mat, DIY, and much more. As always, safety and consent are covered as well. Electric Mayhem 1 Class is helpful but not a prerequisite.
Electrical Play Switch Jake & Bree Bugs
Actively playing with something your parents told you not to, electricity. Includes toys and safety. Additionally, includes a demo during the class. For those of us who stuck our fingers into electrical outlets and liked it, electricity can be used in a multitude of ways, both pain, and pleasure. Now your power company might not approve, but what type of BDSM play is endorsed by your local public utility?
Emotions & Feelings Sir pup henry
Understand their impact in our relationships and ourselves -- AND -- how to manage them. Emotions & Feelings are not the same, they originate from different parts of our brain. By understanding them, and how they shape every aspect of our lives, we can learn to improve our relationships with our "partner", work & social life, and most important our ow personal life. They can't be controlled - but we can learn to manage them, and direct them. Come learn about yourself and have some fun doing it..
Facets of Service Darcy
We’ll talk about the multitude of ways in which a submissive can provide service, from the purely practical to the purely pleasing. We’ll also discuss ways a dominant can encourage service, and how to graciously receive it. This class will discuss the nitty gritty of day to day life with a service submissive and their dominant and how it can be one of the most mutually satisfying relationships you’ll ever find. It’s time to delve beyond house cleaning and blow jobs (not that there’s anything wrong with that)!
Feedback is Not Failure Master Bear
When relationship end and parties decide to go their separate ways, one of the first things many ask themselves, “what did I do wrong?” or “what could I have done differently?”. Effective communication is key to any relationship so we may already have the answer and not know it. I would like everyone who is taking this class to come with open heart, open mind, and open ears.
Feel Less to Feel more Sir Mark Athens
The manipulation of a person’s senses has been a time tested way to establish control, increase pleasure or pain, and build trust. Whether you're a sensual top and bottom who seeks to increase the sensation of erogenous zones, or a sadistic top and masochistic bottom who wishes to inflict maximum pain with little effort, this class is for you! In this class we will explore how to safely deaden one sense in order to hyperstimulate another sense increasing either pleasure or pain for your bottom to experience. We will be using low cost and readily available materials to teach how to play in this dynamic and versatile style of play.
Fisting 101 nolovelost
Fingering? Cool. Anal plug? Nice. Large toys? Heck yeah! Hungry to stretch/be stretched more? Let’s get our hands wet! Fisting is much more possible than what you might expect! This will be a combination lecture and live demonstration on both anal and vaginal fisting. Come learn about safety, techniques, and celebrate how awesome (and really hot) bodies are!
For the Love of Filth (A Raunch Play Discussion) Daddy Zulu
"Pig Play/Raunch Play and Kink is considered taboo to some in our community. Join Master ""Daddy"" Zulu as he has a deep conversation and presentation with Leatherfolk into the kink of natural body odors, sweat, spit, body fluids and more. We will discuss how this primal play feeds us and how it can lead to a spiritual experience. Discussion includes: understanding how we get into this kink, the psychological headspace of celebrating this kink without feeling shamed, and how to balance this kink in power based relationships. Oink! Oink!"
Forced Orgasms Switch Jake & Bree Bugs
The act of giving your partner as many orgasms as they can handle and then five more. At first, they will praise you, an hour from now they will curse your name. Come learn how to not just get your partner off but also enjoy them begging you to stop. It will be the only time you will ever hear “please sir/ma’am! Please! No more orgasms!” This class can also feature a live demo.
Foundations of Polyfidelity MzSymphony & Symphonys_music
Foundations of Polyfidelity – how we built our house: There is no one true way, so this is our way and what works and has been working or us for over 20 years. Non traditional powered poly concepts to think about and maybe incorporate for yourself. A frank discussion on the how and the why of how we have structured our house, and what has and continues to work best.
Getting Restorative Justice Right Baba Cake
This workshop will review the basics of restorative justice practice and theory applied to BDSM communities and review common mistakes and breakdowns in the process to help participants recognize misuse and abuse of restorative processes and facilitate successful implementation of restorative justice in kinky communities. Participants are encouraged to bring their questions and discuss their experiences with restorative processes.
Give 'em Something To Chew On Anansi & Autopsia
Bored bottoms no more! Whether you are still learning rope basics or utilizing structured harnesses, it can often slip the mind of a rope top that they are tying a whole person. This class will cover a few concepts to keep your bottoms busy with something to think about, whether it’s discomfort, pleasure, or anything in-between.
Halp! I'm new to Leather/kink and feeling lost… stray
For those who are newer to the Leather scene and/or kink community, how do we find or build comfort? What are some tips that have worked for you? Are there rumors that you've heard about Leather or kink but aren't sure whether they're accurate? This will be an inclusive forum in which to safely discuss concerns and build community in a roundtable style discussion.
Healing Vibes: The Cathartic Side of BDSM lil Peaches
For some, BDSM is more than just varying links explored and associated with fun. For some, BDSM is part is one’s healing journey. Various kinks can act as a means to take back power and control over a traumatic situation or event. In this workshop, we will explore the cathartic side of BDSM and the pitfalls associated because while it is therapeutic, it is not therapy.
Helping Professionals in the Lifestyle – Making Space and Holding Boundaries Rachel Anne Kieran, Psy.D. & Heather-Leigh /Aria
Kinky therapists, polyamorous psychologists, dominant doctors, queer chiropractors, masochistic massage therapists, caregiver CNAs… So many of us are both kinky, and also work in spaces where we take on a helping role. This discussion time is set aside for talking about how to manage relationships with differing roles and boundaries, all of which need time, attention, and intention. How do we do it all, and what do we keep for our selves?
How KINK Helped Me as a Survivor: Black Women, Boundaries, and the Lifestyle Mistress Sheba
In this class, Mistress Sheba shares her personal story on how kink and the concept of boundaries can be used as help through trauma work and why community is essential to the well being of survivors. Sheba will dive deep into her own personal experiences, and use Black Feminist Theory and Lifestyle knowledge to provide solutions for the equity of Black Femmes in Kink.
How To Get What You Want Out of Rope Anansi & Autopsia
Being able to give and receive feedback is critical for growing your rope skills and having successful scenes. This class is designed to inspire curiosity while building confidence in your abilities to set intentions, negotiate, and communicate. This class is for tops and bottoms alike in order to get what you both want out of a session.
Ichinawa - One Rope, One Journey nolovelost
Whether on its own, or incorporated with other types of play, this style of shibari provides a deep sense of connection to oneself, and with your partner. This class is beginner friendly, and only requires one knot. Please wear comfortable clothing to move in, bring one 8 meter length of rope, safety shears, and water. Limited bundles of rope will be available to loan for the duration of class.
Impact on a Budget The Sadistic Bunny
Around 5 years ago I started toying with the concept of impact on a budget. I started looking at various toys in camping supply stores, the Home Depot, Lowe's, Hobby Lobby, Walmart, Goodwill, and thrift stores. The idea of impact on a budget is that you don't need to break the bank in order to have a wonderful impact toy collection. Anything can be used for impact play. Whether you are just beginning to explore impact play, or you are a seasoned veteran. Most impact toys can be built or found for less than $20. With a little ingenuity and Imagination, there is no reason why you cannot engage in Impact play.
Internal Struggle: Self Predicament SelfSadist
Solo bondage can be very emotionally rewarding. This class dives into the practice of self predicament bondage. The study of self challenge and masochistic catharsis. I will show techniques to do solo bondage safely and fold in the concept of predicament to dig up specific emotions and use them to process the challenges from within.
It's Lonely at the Top Ms Rhonda
There is an unspoken, and often unrecognized, perception in our community that Master equates to autonomous, independent, self-supporting, and all knowing. Add these implied expectations to the actual authority and responsibility of mastery, and it becomes a high bar to meet. The reluctance to admit vulnerability, not having all the answers, fear of asking for advice or information, and a lack of space to seek support are all too common among those on the left side of the slash and may result in feelings of isolation. These issues can be further complicated when life struggles arise. Owners/Masters/Dominants may not feel comfortable talking about challenges they are experiencing or don’t have a safe place to do so. In this class, we will discuss the myth that Masters are all knowing and not in need of support, acknowledge that those on the left side of the slash, like all humans, face challenges, and consider how each of us as Owners/Masters/Dominants can develop our own safe support system and place to share our struggles. To create a safe space to share the vulnerable side of mastery, this class will be open to those on the left side of the slash only.
It's Okay Not To Be Okay Master Bear
This class is designed to help communicate and explore emotions in any relationship with loss or gains. Every day will not be a good day. Every discussion will not go well. And that’s okay. How about we talk about that?
Its Getting Hot in Here Jayson DaBoi & Tami
Lets slick it up rub it down oh no I need a body bag. When doing someone boots do you want to go further? You saw a hot scene with the bootblacks and want to negotiate your own. Every time you open a can of huberds your parts get hard. This is the class for you. We will demonstrate and discuss how to heat up bootblacking in your life. We will cover basic safety and creating scenes from the top, bottom or just a plain old gang bang.
Life$tyle Currency GoddessMW
Most are able to identify what they want from a potential partner or partners. What do you have to offer? Can you articulate your wants, needs or assets? In this BDSM 101 class, we will work to identify wants, needs, and determine which assets to spend on whom and when. What is your Life$tyle currency?
Liquid Nitrogen Branding and Frozen Flower Flogging OzTheThird & Luv4Oz
What can go wrong when you mix kink with a liquefied gas at -320F? Come find out as we present how to safely play with Liquid Nitrogen. We will demo freeze branding and offer the opportunity for people to be branded with a variety of patterns. We will also demos frozen flower flogging, and allow those interested to try. There will be several brands available for you to choose from.
Little Leather and Loud! Meeka Amarillo-Roja
Who uttered the phrase "children should be seen and not heard?!" Welp. That does not apply to Leather Littles. This presentation will look at the various roles littles can and do play in the community and empowers littles to be who they are and want to be. Littles are not all submissive. Littles are not all masochists. Littles can and do lead. Let's discuss and de-mystify, debunk myths. Be loud and proud as leather littles.
Littles Unite b_wylde
This class will discuss various little identities such as (brat, middle, prince/princess, little, babygirl, babyfur/littlefur, Lolita) and more. We will talk about the stigmas that littles face today and collectively brainstorm ways and ideas to encourage positivity and acceptance towards littles in our community. We’ll discuss what activities can easily trigger little space and why consent is so important in this type of headspace and dynamic.
Low Suspensions and Partials for Body Handling Shakti Bliss & Honey
In this class Bliss teaches the concepts to perform a low suspension that can easily be a partial suspension, without the need for a TK or complicated patterns. This suspension will be done in a way to avoid most major nerve bundles to minimize risk and allow for more movement in the rope. This class is about having fun and staying connected with your partner. It can be playful and torturous all at once! It is a great beginner suspension class, for both top and bottom, that provides a structure or concept that can be applied to many possibilities or expressions in the future. Students should have a basic understanding of non-collapsible single and double column ties. Previous experience with upline attachment and lock off recommended. Students should have 6 lengths of rope, a point to work off of (ring, rigging plate, etc) and a cutting tool.
Make it Hurt More: Lean Into It Ms. Reemah & lavender
This class begins discussions and demonstrates how to safely use your body weight (and gravity) to make it hurt more. This is an advanced level class that focuses on the gradual progression of pulling, leaning, then actually climbing on top of a suspended bottom. There will be oohs, aahhs, and hopefully lots of screams.
Margin|Margin: QTBIPOC Representation in the Leather Community Heather Raquel
Margin|Margin is a feature length documentary film by Heather Raquel that is situated in interviews with QTBIPOC members of the leather community. Upon the screening, a town hall style discussion on topics discussed in the film will take place led by the director. The possibility of a round table discussion contingent on the attendance of film participants at SELF.
Masochism vs Service Masochism Luna Nebula
Have you ever thought about the motivation behind your desire to feel pain? Have you ever wondered why it seemed like many others enjoyed the pain but you struggled to endure or even enjoy it? Did it seem like you could endure the pain for certain folks but it just didn't fit with what others described masochism as? Definition of masochism 1 : the derivation of sexual gratification from being subjected to physical pain or humiliation by oneself or another person — compare sadism, sadomasochism 2 : pleasure in being abused or dominated What happens when this isn't exactly the case for you? I am glad you asked! In this class we will discuss a different side of Masochism that I myself have explored on my adventures to understanding my own perceived masochistic tendencies when I felt lost in what many others seemed to experience. I am so excited to share this information with you all and I hope it helps someone else communicate their own types of needs in relationships and play.
Mastering Dynamic Power Exchange Relationships Master Thaddeus Twist & Bunny Nichol Twist
The finished product of any power dynamic is like a masterpiece for the eyes - astonishing and awe-inspiring. But what fuels this extraordinary relationship? How does it come together to create something truly remarkable? In this class, we’re not just going to scratch the surface; we’ll dive deep into the heart of what makes these dynamics exceptional. We’ll unveil the secrets behind their incredible success. What were the key ingredients added to the mix? And, just as crucial, what didn’t quite work, and how were these challenges conquered? But the adventure doesn’t end there. You’ll be part of a dynamic community, exploring what’s still in the works and being adjusted to keep the magic alive. As we journey together, we’ll not only draw inspiration from the achievements of others but also unearth practical insights that can transform your own power dynamics. Our interactive and engaging sessions will equip you with the tools, strategies, and wisdom needed to forge your own path to success.Don’t miss this opportunity to master the art of dynamic power and create relationships that are nothing short of extraordinary. Join us on this thrilling quest to understand, enhance, and master the power dynamics that shape your world.
Me Dom, You Sub... Now What? Darcy
You've figured out that you're a dominant. Or you've figured out that you're a submissive. Maybe you've realized you like both and you're a switch. Congratulations!
But that's not the end of it.
What does being a dominant or a submissive mean to you? What do you want your D/s relationship(s) to look like?
Darcy will offer some thoughts on different styles of relationships, the needs of different types of dominants and submissives, and how to get those needs met in the real world.
Men Surviving Rape: Myths, Healing, & Survivorship Evil_admin
It's estimated that 1 in 6 women are rape victims but most don't realize that an estimated 1 in 8 men are as well. Most likely more but due to societal stigma, many go unreported. Let's create a safe environment and discuss the myths, be able to share peer experiences, and de-stigmatize the conversation for at least one class. I will share my story about it, how it affected me and why I did not report. No one will be required to share but if you want to there is opportunity to do so. What is said here, stays here.
Modern Primitives Tonya
The history of the modern hook pull and how it intertwines with Queer Leather history and how what we are doing is not cultural appropriation. We will share the stories that built the body stress rituals that modern primitives participate in today. This is important information for anyone attending the Mind, Body, Spirit hook pull at SELF!
Moments that Matter: Currating Meaning & Magic Beast & echo
Sometimes, everything comes together just right to create a perfect moment; one that shapes our life, provides direction and meaning, or cements a lasting memory. Many of us spend much of our lives chasing those moments. Imagine being able to intentionally create and craft these moments within your relationships, dynamics, and your Leather and kink experience. In this session, Beast and echo will share their approach to curating these moments and provide the tools necessary for you to take the lead in crafting moments that matter to you.
Needles and Staples 101 -Celtic-
In this class, I will teach the BASIC skills of needles and staples, from negotiations to aftercare. There will be a hands on portion for needles and topping with staples so come as a duo, trio or solo. Sorry, due to the price of staplers I cannot supply enough staplers for everyone so here are links for a stapler and a remover. Stapler (wide) https://www.shopmedvet.com/product/90044 Remover https://www.shopmedvet.com/product/109512
Neuronconvergent: Creating Harmony in Your Dynamic from the Discord of Mental Health Challenges Beast & echo
Those of us who live with our own mental health challenges are often labeled neurodivergent – meaning we process and respond to situations and information in ways that differ from the norm. For many of us, this divergence can create significant barriers to intimacy and our ability to connect to one another. In this class, Beast and Echo will talk about the way these barriers have impacted their relationship, and the tools and strategies they’ve developed that allow two neurodivergent individuals to create a NeuroConvergent dynamic.
Pain Play For the Non-Masochist / Impact Beyond Stingy & Thuddy Evie Lupine
We've all heard it or said it before: "Which do you like more, stingy or thuddy?" What if those weren't the only two options? In this class we'll go over how to take your play beyond this dichotomy, discussing other physical and mental scene elements you can use to feed your sadomasochist. Not sure if you like pain? Perfect! This class might help you discover something unexpected -- and we'll be covering lots of techniques and scene ideas for those who want to play withimpact, but maybe aren't natural-born masochists. Total pain slut? You're welcome too.
Partial Suspension: Between Two Worlds SelfSadist
In a bondage culture obsessed with suspension, where do we start? How do we safely learn suspension uplines, flow of a scene, and build momentum? We start from the ground. This class will discuss the function and technique of partial suspensions and why they are overlooked in our western culture obsessed with the sky. I’ll talk about self tying partials and introduce harness structures that are useful and interesting for floor work and partial suspensions.
Pasifika, South Asian, Southeast Asian, Middle Eastern, and East Asian Discussion APRiL
This discussion will provide a space for individuals from Pasifika, South Asian, Southeast Asian, Middle Eastern, East Asian, and Multiracial Asian backgrounds to explore their unique experiences at the intersection of their cultural identities and Leather/kink practices. We will discuss topics such as cultural influences, challenges, and empowerment, creating a supportive and inclusive environment. The aim is to foster understanding, build connections, and celebrate the diverse perspectives within these communities, promoting a sense of belonging and empowerment.
Planning and Hosting Inclusive Protocol Events John
This class explores and elaborates on ideas for hosting inclusive and welcoming protocol-centric events. During the class, which is a mixture of lecture and discussion, John will engage attendees on subjects such as planning protocol events, making consent-focused decisions in the planning process, and how to plan events that are maximally inclusive and welcoming across many axes of difference.
Poetry in Motion, Body Mechanics for Impact Play Master Lily
Versatility as a player allows for added fun in your scenes, and can help your bottom last longer. Being able to utilize multiple implements, in varying locations, also makes it so you can find more people who want to experience the skill sets you have to offer; which gives you a higher, likelihood of finding partners you really enjoy. Movement during play is very important! How do you bring an implement down on flesh accurately if you are not getting on eye level with your target…you probably don’t?!? Rhythm can add a lot to the enjoyment of a scene. Technique can help prevent you from injuring yourself and your bottom. Controlling your implements is imperative to safe play, good body mechanics will enhance that control. This is a hands on and discussion based class.
QTBIPOC Rope Bottom Roundtable lavender
Join Lavender in this roundtable discussion of all things rope and speak with others about their kink journey. This is a wonderful time to connect and meet others within the community and strengthen networks. Participants are encouraged to bring a notebook to write in and this session is closed to those not identifying as queer, trans and or BIPOC
Raising Cane MzJewcy
The word “canes” often strikes fear in many. However, the art of caning has many permutations. In skilled hands, it can range from playful and sensual to intense and painful. Canes are my passion! I’ll share techniques for different parts of the body, tips for reading your bottom and helping them process, and those marks we all love. There are several games to make caning positive and interactive. You’ll have the opportunity to feel different types of canes and how each deliver a different sensation. Towards the end, if time permits, I will open up the class to hands on learning. You'll have the opportunity to experience caning from a skilled top or get instruction on caning your partner. This class is fun and educational whether you're experienced or new to caning. Join me for Raising Cane. Learn something new, share something old, and allow me to show you why I love canes so much!
Reimagining the Archive: Collecting Contemporary History Heather Raquel
A workshop to build upon a contemporary history in the making. A presentation about the (under)representation of marginalized community in leather and LGBTQIA+ archives will be followed by a photography studio session. This will be designed to build a current archive of QTBIPOC leather community. Each volunteer that is part of the studio will receive edited photo files of themselves and create a file to represent themselves in several archives.
Rhythmic Beating Miss Rae & chris, Miss Rae's pet
Experience how to use music as sadomasochistic play by becoming the instrument or the musician. Rhythmic Beating is a surreal way of pounding the beat into someone until their heartbeats are synchronized with the music. Discover the endorphin rush, spiritual connection and cathartic release found through the pain and the pleasure. Learn about safety and techniques as everyone becomes a circle of pulsating exotic and erotic energy. This is a hands-on class where everyone will find the beat within as our collective energies crescendo to the rhythm.
Risk Evaluation and Mitigation for the Kinkster DX Victoria Xy
“Safe, Sane, and Consensual” and “Risk Aware Consensual Kink (R.A.C.K)” are great mantras to have. But how do you know you’re being “safe”? How do you know what the risks are? Delve into how to evaluate the risks in your play for both sides of the slash. You will be given tools, tips, and tricks on how to evaluate and mitigate risks; including exploring the mental, physical, and emotional impacts your scenes could have on the top(s) and bottom(s) involved. Learn risk evaluation and mitigation from a 10+ year U.S. Army Combat Medic and 17+ year EMT; who’s been responsible for safety and injury prevention around the world, as well as responding when things go wrong.
Rope for Bigger Bodies Sir Noah
This class is suitable for all learning groups including self ties. Rope for bigger bodies will walk through how to create more sustainable ties for individuals with larger body types. We will go over rope placement and precautions, and teach a harness that is suitable for floor work and suspension. We will end class with a demo suspension showing how to apply techniques learned in class.
Sadistic Games MzJewcy
Laughter is therapeutic, increases oxygen intake, and creates positive energy. Let’s use laughter, games, and distraction to change up headspace. Think Tic-Tac-Toe with evil sticks and bite marks! There are so many games from childhood that can be pervertable. Challenge a friend to a game of Simon! This energy effects all participants within the scene. When you venture outside of your comfort zone you will find confidence, personal growth, and the excitement of a new experience or skill. Join me for Sadistic Games and the Wheel of MisFortune!
Saline Infusion for Breast Expansion JustRob
In this session, we will discuss the temporary expansion of the breast through saline infusion. We will discuss the equipment necessary. The safety and anatomical considerations for infusion. We will walk through the basic procedure for infusion. Lastly, we will talk about some of our real world experiences with infusions and provide some best practices for doing breast infusions. The content of this class is applicable to bottoms of any gender expression or identity, regardless of anatomy.
Self Ties 101 Mr. Slaughter
By the end of this class you will know how to prep the body for self tying, know the basic reverse friction, how to tie the lark's head and single column, and what to do in case of emergency.
Self-Bondage with Ice Locks Britney
Do you enjoy bondage, but do not have a regular play partner? Have you wanted to do your own bondage, but do not believe you are flexible enough to get the handcuff key in the handcuffs to release yourself? Do you fantasize of neat things that you want to combine with your self-bondage like gags, nipple clamps, or certain positions to be bound in? Join Britney as she discusses many of the techniques she has tried, and the various locking items used during her many years of practicing self-bondage. This presentation will provide samples of actual self- bondage items used as well as pictures of other items with internet sites where they can be purchased. She will provide a bill of material for you to make a cheap set of ice locks for use if you choose to experiment with your own self bondage and a guaranteed way to get out. She will also discuss the precautions you should take when practicing this type of bondage. The mind is a great place to fantasize about many things, however those fantasies may not be what you expect in reality.
Self-Ties Chest Harness Mr. Slaughter
Learn how to self tie a simple arms free chest harness by the end of class.
Service! - Not Just For Submissives Carlton TheDoorman
Service! - Not just for submissives Within the BDSM lifestyle, we often think about submissives providing service but in this class we will look at the concept that we are all here to serve. We will discuss what is “service”, examples of service, do we serve for the needs of others or for our own needs, and why do we serve or why SHOULD we serve!
Shapes and Transitions Ms. Reemah & lavender
In this class we will discuss how to build a suspension scene and go through a transition sequence. We will discuss thought processes, trouble shooting, transitions, and communication between top and bottom.
Sharing a Dominant in a Poly Dynamic pit_for_her
This class will outline some of the pros and cons of being a submissive in a multiple submissive and single Dominant household. Topics will include; overcoming jealousy, pecking order, service, negotiating and veto power, compersion and more. Please bring your questions and experiences and share them as discussion is encouraged.
Shibari and Sadomasochism Danielle Gray
Not all pain is physical. This class explores the journey of the intentions behind rope bondage. Whether you are interested in learning physical torture techniques, want to expand your understanding of exposure as a sadistic tool, have an interest in mental mind games that can be played between people in rope and those tying, or are intrigued by the historical path of Shibari and sadomasochism, this is the class for all of that, and more. This class is intended to be a springboard discussion type of educational with the opportunity for attendees to brainstorm with others in attendance and with the presenter.
Silent Symphony: The Nonverbal Little Adventure Game Celina
Silent Symphony is an interactive class that delves into the world of nonverbal communication. Through engaging activities and exercises, folx will develop a deeper understanding of the power of nonverbal cues, body language, and expressive communication. We will discuss how to navigate the board game through the land of negotiations, the sea of scenes, the dark forest of dynamics and more. This class aims to enhance interpersonal skills, empathy, and self-awareness while fostering an appreciation for the richness of nonverbal communication
Situational Awareness The Sadistic Bunny
Situational awareness is exactly what it sounds like. Being aware of your environment, everything, AND everyone around you. Not walking around with your head buried in your phone. When you're focused on your phone, you're not focused on much else. Scanning your environment for potential threats. Being mindful of individuals and suspicious activity and actions can save your life. This may seem ridiculous, but looking at people's hands. Hands hold things that can cause harm. If hands are in pockets, they could be holding pretty much anything. Etc....
Skin Fuckery Ms Marilyn Z
Let’s penetrate the skin. Blood play encompasses many scenes. The term causes chills and is a hard limit for many. From raw bloodletting, venipunctures, abrasions, scratching and knife play … to artistry with Needles, Scalpels, Sutures, and Staples. All will be discussed, many demonstrated, and hands on participation will be encouraged. From basic safety issues, to elaborate designs will be covered. Ever tasted your own blood? Ever intentionally burn your own skin? Curious? Join us. Let’s have a fucking good time penetrating the skin.
Snap, Crackle & Pop and Not in a Good Way "BDSM & Aging" Oracle Uncle Jay Onyx
This will be an dialoge for BDSM players over 50 to share thoughts & ideas, tips on playing now that you are over 50 compared to how you played in your 20s, 30s and early 40s.
So what if it's a phase? TNG & M/s slave chy & Master Castle
Let’s talk about the struggles of being considered TNG ( the next generation) while maintaining a healthy M/s dynamic. We will discuss the stereotypes surrounding being part of the TNG crowd. How the introductory to kink has changed over the generations. What things might be able to be done to help bridge the gap between generations and the unique challenges of competing for a title while being a part of the next generation.
So You Think You Can Dine? High Protocol Dining slave chy & Master Castle
“Eating is so intimate. It's very sensual. When you invite someone to sit at your table and you want to cook for them, you're inviting a person into your life.” - Maya Angelou. The beauty and elegance of refined service lends itself beautifully to the enchantment of these encounters. High protocol dinners serve to do just this, imbuing the encounter with structure and sophistication. Together we will explore what high protocol dining is, some ways high protocol service can be done, and how both sides of the slash can lend themselves to the enhancement of the experience while endeavoring to bring new life back to this dying art.
Staples, Sutures and Psuedo-Suturing JustRob
Many of us at some point or another have had an accident and needed to have a wound closed via staples or stitches, but have you ever had your mouth stapled shut as a form of speech restriction? In this session we will discuss the use of skin closure technology specifically skin staple and sutures for kink purposes. We will also discuss pseudo-suturing, a form of skin closure that doesn't employ sutures but is a relative safe and easy way to sew something open or closed or on :)
Staying in It - Remaining Present During Conflict in Authority Exchange Relationships Tomo
Humans often react to conflict, attack, or stress with a fight, flight, or freeze response. In this class, Tomo will offer the concept from a martial arts principle of remaining present in conflict, applied specifically to relationships that exchange authority. Being present without fight, flight, or freeze during stressful situations including conflict can help us be more centered with a goal of resolution. Using a simple hand technique which will be practiced in the class, we will all feel and experience the magic of “staying in it” in our bodies, minds, and hearts.
Strap On Sensations! Davey/Dswitch & Hunny Please
How to sense your strap on, have more sensation, connection, and orgasms with your straps, dildos, and prosthetics. Wanna have more fun topping with a strap or dildo? Are you a nervous beginner, an eager top, or seasoned veteran? There’s always more that can happen, new ways to play, and more sensitivity to access together, that’s what this class is about. This class will have lecture, demos, and solo or partner activities that will give you new ideas and give you space to explore new sensations deeply while confronting your preconceived notions, your body, and even your shame and resistances to pleasure. You will learn about a ton of options for tools, straps, how to use them, and ways to play so you can find what works best for you. Come have a good time!
Suffering, Trials and Tribulation Tris
Tris is moved by play grounded in suffering past limits and boundaries. Tris seeks relationships where sacrifice is part of what is offered – emotionally or physically. This class is a walking trigger warning! In this class we will discuss controversial topics and the development of those individualized experiences into the dark depths of fetish based spiritual and emotional based suffering; including but not limited to torture, fear, blackmail that extends into people's real lives, behavior modification, sacrifice, humiliation and degradation.
Take Me to Your Pleasure Map Davey/Dswitch & Hunny Please
Let’s make a map of your body for what you want and how you want it, but let’s make it even better by figuring out ways to tell someone else how to get there. Not the same all the time? Not the same for every single type of sensation? Great! Let’s use this workshop to explore our bodies taking each other on a research date where we get to practice great communication models for giving and receiving feedback. This workshop is also a great space for you to get a little better at saying what you mean and asking exactly for what you want whether you attended alone or with a partner. You will end up with a drawing that has a guide that maps your specific pleasures by body location. And then you will get specific with your drawings based on different sensation types and toys. This workshop is great for impact play, but also great for anyone engaging in any kind of touch.
Take Up Your Space – Unlearning Fat Shame and Embracing Body Liberation (Even When It’s Hard!) Rachel Anne Kieran, Psy.D. & Heather-Leigh/Aria
The global impact of the billion dollar diet industry is felt individually in our difficulty connecting to our bodies, inhabiting physical space, and even accepting physical pleasure (no matter what size our bodies are). This is particularly difficult for fat people, and worsened for people with multiple marginalized identities who experience not only physiological and psychological impacts, but also the systemic race, gender and class hierarchies that fat antagonism serves to maintain. This workshop will explore the roots and effects of antifat bias, share some contemporary science on the subject, and discuss processes for fighting back against the tide of antifat propaganda, and creating accepting and nurturing relationships with our physical bodies.
Tension With Intention (Rope) Shakti Bliss & Honey
In this class Bliss will begin with some rope handling drills that will help you practice movement and tension. These exercises are fun and allow you be engaged with your partner as you practice them. We will repeat simple exercises while changing our communication in the rope with varying tension, speed and emotion. After practicing those drills and really breaking the ice with our partners and in the room (this usually has some silliness involved) we will then use those skills we have been working on to engage in a single rope tie with our partners. Many times referred to as "ichinawa", which translates to "one rope", we will see how much affect we can have in a moment or connection with just one little piece of rope and how much we can change the story and sensation for our partner based on how we choose to apply the rope. This class is suitable for all levels. Students should have one length of rope.
The "Ism" Schism: Airing out the Dirty Case of Bias and Intersectionality Meeka Amarillo-Roja
All rise, Court is in session. It's not about Guilty or Innocent. Maybe you have seen it, Maybe you have lived it. "-isms” are the behavioral manifestation of bias, conscious or unconscious, that reinforce oppression and inequities in our community. This "hearing" will look at case study of 4 "ism's" that greatly impact what it is that we do: Sizeism, Ageism, Ableism, and Classism. Will you Object?! or will we come to a civil understanding?
The Arrogant Slave Danielle Grey
This discussion explores the struggle of an s type that has arrogant personality traits but also has the intense desire to be humbled. We’ll start with a lecture-style portion that focuses on Danielle’s personal journey as a springboard to an open discussion. This class is open to any person who has interest in participating in or listening to the discussion- D-types, s-types, and all those in between.
The Closest Shave: Straight Razor Shaving 101 Sir Joel & exploreit
Do you have a shaving fantasy? A person holding your balls or labia in one hand, pulling them tight so they are stretched away from your body, in the other hand you catch a glimpse of a straight razor moving towards you, making contact, removing the hair effortlessly. This class teaches the basics of how to shave a person’s body... cock, balls, pussy. ass, legs, head, and chest ... all with a straight razor. Safety, proper use, and technique will be discussed as well as constructing a scene using the straight razor as the focal point. *Audience participation is encouraged, but not required.
The Egalitarian Monogamist and Other Embarrassing Identities: A Study of Stigma within the BDSM Community Jen
Despite the increasing popularity of BDSM imagery, erotica, and activities, BDSM practitioners still face substantial stigma from those outside the community. Unknown thus far, however, is whether practitioners also face stigma within the community due to their interests in certain activities and relationships. This presentation will begin with a review of past research on stigma and the impact it has on individuals and organizations. We will then share the results of our latest study that examined which BDSM interests, activities, dynamics, and relationship styles BDSM practitioners would be hesitant to disclose to others within the BDSM community. These findings provide insight into another potential source of stigma faced by BDSM practitioners: the BDSM community itself.
The Energy Beat Mufasa Ali
In this class we will explore Energy play which is frequently said to include techniques of: muscle-tension/relaxation, hormonal or sensory stimulation through touch or imagination, emotional self programming, Endorphin manipulation through SM techniques to produce a chemical high, repetition, slight of hand/confusion, hypnosis and stress techniques to create a suggestible state for the willing, and use of cold reading and interrogation techniques.
The Making of a Titleholder Ms Rhonda
Have you ever considered competing for a title? If so, please join Ms Rhonda, an event producer for many years in multiple contest systems including IMsL, IMsBB, NWMs, NWPOL and others. She will discuss everything from the first step of selecting a title system to compete in, details about the different titles available, how to apply, hints on how to win, and an insight into what happens behind the curtains at a leather contest.
The Predicament of Knives Sir Mark Athens
On a Knife's edge is where we will find the predicament of fear, trust, and lust. Feeling the sensation of cold steel pull slowly and sharply across the skin, creating both fear and seduction. The points piercing the skin freeing the body of both breath and orgasums. The dilemma of choosing fear and ecstasy. In this class attendees will explore how to leverage knives in there own erotic sense. We will be focusing on the erotic forms of knife play as it pertains specifically to predicament play and bondage. Attendees will leave this class with the knowledge of how to safely create, execute, and enjoy a unique style of playing with knives. Come out and take a walk on the edge of edge play!
The Prosocial Sadist Jen
Sadism has a pretty bad rap. The word conjures images of Joffrey Baratheon and Hannibal Lecter, and historically, sadistic impulses could lead to a diagnosis of “sadistic sadism disorder.” Recently, psychologists have reconsidered sadism, defining “everyday sadism” as a personality trait that we all possess to some degree. But even here, the usual example of an everyday sadist is an Internet troll. Last year, the Science of BDSM Research Team published a study that examined the nature of BDSM sadism and how it differs from other types of sadism. In this workshop, we take a tour through past perspectives on sadism, from the assumption that sadistic impulses are universally pathological to the recognition that some situations provoke sadistic feelings in many of us. We’ll then share the results of our research, including the personality profiles of BDSM sadists and non-sadistic tops and the key characteristic that differentiates prosocial sadists: the necessity of consent.
The Walking Dead: How to Take Care of Your Crispy, Moldy, and Out Of Commission Leathers Tris
You’ve seen them. You’ve felt them. You’ve probably even smelled them. Crispy, dry, moldy, old, dry gear. You love it, but it’s grey, old, and dry. Your cat pissed on it. You’ve worn “this spot” through. You went to Burning Man and…..well, is there hope for you and that playa dust? How do you recover gear that you think is lost? What do you do? Come find out how to ask a bootblack about restoration! Come see pictures of items that have been restored, ask questions, and bring your items that need restoration for discussion. Come learn how one bootblack has “done it” and discuss how others may accomplish the same/similar or even drastically different results.
They Pissed on My Boots Ms Marilyn Z
Storytelling, without preaching, can help bridge the generation gap. This class is about intergenerational diversity and commonality. How we can find ways to learn from each other at any level of experience. Showing reverence to those that paved the path before us, is as important as celebrating the exciting and diverse paths and ways of doing kink that the new generation will create. Ms. Marilyn (She/her) is the matriarch of Monarch Z, a leather family whose chronological age gap spans 42 years. She is referred to as a benevolent queen and pied piper to millennials and Gen Zs in South Florida. Join us for an open discussion on mentoring, teaching, learning about and embracing each other’s journeys (and find out why they pissed on my boots).
Threads of Love: Repairing Memories Through Textile Restoration Celina
Threads of Love: Repairing Memories through Textile Restoration is a transformative hands-on class that combines the art of textile restoration with the healing power of storytelling. Participants learn the intricate techniques of repairing and preserving textiles while discovering the therapeutic benefits of reviving cherished memories. Through hands-on activities, students mend and breathe new life into worn-out fabrics, unraveling the threads that hold personal narratives. With guidance, they delve into the stories behind each piece, connecting with emotions and experiences. This unique class offers a profound opportunity to heal, honor the past, and create lasting legacies through the transformative art of textile restoration. We ask that folx bring items that need some extra loving, we will provide threads, sewing needles, shears, love and guidance.
Tying the Knot: The Intersection of Marriage and M/s Marilyn & Rio, Marilyn's slave
Some say there shouldn’t be love between a Master and a slave, or that marriage will ruin the power dynamic. In this class we’ll discuss common fears and how to address them, and how our marriage affected our M/s dynamic, for better or worse, for richer for poorer, and in sickness and in health. Please also bring your stories and experiences.
Urethral Sounding Master Lily
Are you interested in the pleasure that prostate stimulation can cause, but not sure you want anything inserted rectally to reach it? Have you seen sounds and been aroused or frightened by them? Have you ever inserted anything into your urethra and found it to be a good/bad experience? Do you want to learn to fuck a cock from the inside while stimulating the prostate? Do you desire to know how to create A-Septic space, or pre-pre-lube correctly and in a harm prevention based fashion? Are you curious about the various methods for sanitizing metal/medical insertibles "on the fly", when you are isolated from your oven, stove, autoclave, or dishwasher!? If so, I will look forward to seeing you in class! This will be both a hands on and discussion based class.
Using Mediation Techniques to Resolve Disputes in M/s Relationships Liza & Jody, Liza's slave
While the fantasy of the M/s dynamic is that the Master commands, the slave obeys, and the relationship has no conflict, the reality is that we are all human and conflicts arise. These real world conflicts can cause rifts in the relationship or, in some cases, can even cause the relationship to end. In this class we will explore some useful techniques to resolve conflicts while respecting the authority based nature of the M/s relationship. Open to all. Participation encouraged.
Welcome to the Wonderful World of Seared Flesh and Frozen Epidermis (Branding) Sir Joel & exploreit
This class will be a 101-style overview and demonstration of branding styles, safety, aftercare, and implementation of techniques. We will discuss hot and cold branding as well as how to perform it on a person in a risk aware manner. Beginning with an overview of equipment used and the different types of tools, the differences between strike/hot branding, violet wand, cold branding, and freeze branding. We will then explore how using different techniques to brand affects the skin, placement, caring for the brand and healing. This will be followed by a group discussion on negotiation and constructing a branding scene as well as talking about the use of branding as a mark of ownership vs temporary fun. At the end of the class, the audience will have the opportunity to try branding in real time on a slab of pig skin. *Audience participation is encouraged, but not required.
What WE Not Going to Do is… Setting and Respecting Boundaries in the BDSM, Kink and Leather Community Master Thaddeus Twist & Bunny Nichol Twist
In the exhilarating realm of BDSM, kink, and Leather, the intricate dance of boundaries is more than just a choice; it's an absolute lifeline. This is where "What WE Not Going to Do Is…" comes into play, an enlightening class that delves deep into the heart of establishing and maintaining boundaries within these vibrant communities. Picture this: you're about to embark on a transformative journey, delving into the secrets of mutual consent, trust, and empowerment. It's not just a class; it's an immersive experience that will leave you both enlightened and invigorated. Prepare to unravel the nuances of boundaries in a way that you've never experienced before. "What WE Not Going to Do Is…" is your ticket to igniting your passion and deepening your understanding in this diverse world. So, are you ready to embrace the electrifying world of BDSM, kink, and Leather, and truly grasp why boundaries are the very heartbeat of this exhilarating journey? Join us, and together, we'll embark on this thrilling exploration, where understanding and empowerment await at every turn.
What's in Your Bag?? OzTheThird & Luv4Oz
Many times those on the right side of the slash tend to rely on those on the left side to take care of all the needs related to the scene or aftercare. Instead, how about putting together your own bag, to cover all your Self and After Care needs? Come join us as we share what is in our bag, and maybe get some ideas on how to put yours together.
What's Next for the BIPOC Communities in Kink Master Nwachi
This workshop is a think tank, discussion, and perhaps a starting point in creating and imagining what comes next for individuals who identify as BIPOC within the kink community. Individuals will create vision, missions, core values, and action steps for doing the work that welcomes and supports what comes next. There will be times set aside for discussion and community building.
What’s Spirit Got to Do with It? Liza & Jody, Liza's slave
Navigating a “successful” Master/slave or authority-based relationship can be challenging when the M-type and the s-type have different cultural backgrounds and approach life from sometimes opposing spiritual contexts. This can lead to confusion, mismatched expectations, and even conflict. The discussion will start here and we’ll see where it goes from there.
Whip It Good! – An Intro To Whips & Safety Master Leather Redux & Raea
This class focuses on the kink applications of the single tail whip in BDSM. Basic throws and where to hit safely on the body will be covered. Techniques such as basic whip care and sanitizing will be discussed as well. Please bring a hat, goggles and your own whips! Bring a play partner too so you can both learn about how to play with whips safely.
Writing your Owners Manual on Either Side of the Slash Sir Edgar & slave raven
Why is it important for both sides to write one? What you should include? The owners manual is a deep reflection of ourselves and what we need.
Yes, I can! Lil Aaly
Come and explore the topic of Dominant Little's from a Sadistic Little herself. We will tackle preconceived notions regarding this topic. I discovered true Littles headspace one night in the dungeon. Yes I was safe, Yes I was in control. We will discuss the how and why I able to do that; as well as the in's and out's from personal experience and your own stories. This will be a fun-filled discussion.
Your Words Matter: Conscious Language Devyn Stone
They say actions speak louder than words, and the adage isn’t any less true within the kink and BDSM community. Oftentimes, however, the language we draft has an opportunity to act and create impressions before we have a chance to speak. Whether you’re drafting policies, designing signs for your dungeon, or creating invitations to your event, you will want to make everyone feel included. In “Conscious Language,” Devyn Stone fosters discussion with participants on how to consciously craft language and persona in media and presentation in order to evoke the values and principles of individuals, organizations, and event spaces. Please note: there will be examples of language that may be harmful to BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, Neurodivergent, and disabled folx in order to demonstrate to attendees what is and isn’t conscious language.